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The Nerdy Debate at Work

My coworker got “offended” because how I described him included “nerdy”….so it went on for like a half hour on whether or not he’s a nerd. He’s totally not, but he has nerdy…interests…that’s the best way I can explain it but anyway…

He was trying to give me alternative ‘titles’ that’d he fall under better besides nerd, so he gives me the term “grup” and tells me to look it up on

First definition:

A grown-up in the minority, finding themselves among younger people. Coined by Adrian Spies, writer of the Star Trek episode featuring a post-apocalyptic world where only teenagers survived.

I started laughing. He’s trying to defend himself by saying he’s not a nerd, and then gives me a term connected to Star Trek.

He just stared at the screen, and blinked and went, “Shit.”

Omg it was the funniest thing ever.

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